Mature Sex Dating in Hayward

As the title says, I'm an intelligent, but VERY fun, outgoing with a twist of 'shy' girl. I have a very nerdy, silly "your mom is ____." sense of humor. At times sexual and a little raunchy, a slight tease but only enough to keep you coming back for more. I'm the 'shameless' girl next door type that you sometimes hear screaming at the computer screen late at night when playing video games. I have a job, I am emotionally independent and comfortable with my 'state' of mind and feelings. I am not looking to play games, I have a computer for that. I'm up front and honest, not really looking to hook up, but no one comes to Craigslist just to make "friends". I drive, have a job, and can keep myself busy when alone - so I'm not overly clingy but won't leave you hanging for weeks at a time. You: I really would love to meet a man on the taller side - we all have preferences, this one is mine. ( I'm a huge high heel 'snob' and although some might consider me high maintenance with my image, I do love to 'dress up'. I feel like I'm the epitome of femininity, with a touch of edge. Typically I hold great conversation, and even better when I've had a drink or two. I'm 420 friendly although I don't mind if you do or do not smoke, I'm an 'intimate' user ;).. ) So please understand why height is appreciated by me. I have no preference what your race is, although I TYPICALLY am attracted to white, black, and asian men. Please appreciate a woman with curves, again I am not a stick figure, if you're too prideful to consider yourself a "chubby chaser" fine, whatever don't bruise your ego. But understand where I'm coming from. And please, please be smart, you don't need to be book smart, but be quick and keep up with my conversations. Be creative, and if you're not, be cheesy in a way where you come off 'cute' not lame. In other words, don't be a cocky douche bag. Have an open mind. Me: A little more of a physical description. Blonde ( But a total chameleon and blessed enough to pull off red, brunette and black hair colors off ), 5'6", again a lover of all heels 4" and up. ( If your dick is smaller than my heels we have a problem. Just kidding there goes my sense of humor ). CURVY, but not top heavy - sorry. Light brown eyes. If you can appreciate great conversation, an eccentrically, nerdy but smart woman with a very amazing eclectic taste in music and appreciates good literature that is not Twilight, knows when to be mature when needed but fun when not and doesn't want a "Sugar Daddy" please contact me. I am not looking for a one night stand, and please be age 'appropriate' (30 or under ). Thank you! If you're even SOMEWHAT intrigued by my post and can understand what any of my "big words" mean please, do not hesitate to e-mail me. Or if you match any other description.

It's so hard for me to meet people since I work alot. Blonde hair and died black underneath,it's almost half way down my back, blue/grey eyes, bout 155 lbs. Good head on my shoulders. Just wanna meet new people for now, maybe date and hang out if you throw that out there. Someone who is mature and knows what they want in life with a funny personality-I love to laugh and just like to have a good time. No players, alcoholics, or addicts.My picker has been broken lately so I need to be specific lol. Tats and piercings are cool- I have some. Send me a pic. and you will get mine. If ur a weirdo and wanna share ur girl or guy or just want a piece of ass or one night stand Im not down sorry!! Hope to hear from you soon. Post real in the subject line I guess there are some spammers out there as I read on here. Hear from you soon , you wont be disappointed believe me!

Being in the dating scene recently has made me realize how many selfish and self centered plague this world. I understand a need for wanting to be wanted or needed but let's be real if that is all you are looking for than lying to someone about what you want is not a way to go about getting it. I want love and affection as much as the next person but I will be damned if I am going to lead someone on to believe something when its not what I actually want. At the end of the day those tactics not only make me look sad and pathetic but hurt the person I have led on. I have been down this road one to many times and honestly I am far to mature and intelligent to deal with bullshit any longer. Ladies if you are mature, and when I say mature I do not mean age based because I have met some younger women who are far more mature than their older counterparts. I mean mature minded, you have a head on your shoulders and can have a conversation that does not always involve how cute your shoes are or how you hope and pray that the new twilight movie is as good as the others. Mature meaning you can hold an intellectual conversation for longer than two minutes and it doesn't turn into a battle of wits but you smart enough to listen to others opinions and ideals and understand how others think and feel. That is a real woman, everyone today says "oh yea i'm mature because I have a car and a job". How does that make you mature? It shows your not lazy yea, but maturity is nowhere in that phrase. 16 year old teens can have a job and a car, it doesn't make them mature. Maturity comes from living life and knowing what you want and having an open mind to the world around you. If the top things you feel a guy should have are money, car and an apartment please keep moving. While I have money and my own things I really do not want someone who decides whether I am worth talking to based on these principle things. I understand not wanting to take care of someone better than most people because I have done it off and on for years so I get the "not wanting to be a sugar mama" mentality. But I have come across far to many people who feel that if you don't make enough money in their eyes, not driving a good car or don't live on your own you ain't worth their time and that is a clear cut sign of a gold digger. Now don't get offended because ladies I understand there are many men in this world who play the role and lead you on, I am in no way saying we are perfect or anywhere near. But for the decent guys out here who are good guys and have time for something real, if you ain't looking for the same thing then just keep it moving. Don't waste our time on a "maybe someday" type thing. I want someone who has time to talk to me, and I mean talk, not the occasional "hey, hows your day going" I mean have a phone conversation and really get to know one another. Hang out at a park or the marina and just talk. I am not looking for sex, sexual favors, money, or someone to take care of me. Right now it would be nice to find a woman who was interested in getting to know me as a person. Not looking at me and going "yea I could never talk to him" because your judging based on my looks, sitting down and talking to me and seeing who I am as a person. I feel I can do that for others, so why should I lower myself to being what they feel I should be. I am an awesome person with a personality of gold. I make a great friend and will bend over backwards for those who deserve it but do not take my kindness for weakness. I know who I am and want to be able to share who I am with someone special. Looks are not very important to me but I do prefer BBW women more so because I am a bigger guy and I like being around women who I don't have to worry if they are going to blow away in the wind. PLEASE DO NOT WASTE YOUR TIME OR MINE. IF YOU DO NOT HAVE TIME FOR A SIMPLE CONVERSATION OR ARE MORE CONCERNED WITH PICTURES AND WHERE I CAN TAKE YOU PLEASE KEEP IT MOVING. THIS AD IS FOR REAL MATURE WOMEN ONLY. IF YOU AIN'T MATURE DON'T BOTHER. To help me weed out spam put your favorite color in the title...

A little about me: 19 years old, CP student. Honest, sweet, cute, loving, smart, mature Looking for a real man...I'm tired of dating children disguised as "men" You: 19-23 years old Honest, genuine, polite, and confident in who you are Intelligent with goals for yourself and your future Willing to open up and let someone in and care about you :) If you're looking for an easy girl to sleep or smoke weed with, you're looking in the wrong place. . . Only serious responses please. I'm looking for a good guy to get to know and spend time with. If you're interested in being this guy for me, please respond and tell me a little more about yourself. . ..I'm looking forward to hearing from you! :)

where are the mature fun quiet ladies 50-75 ? i am a white male 60 , 5'7" tall 125 lbs. slim build, and i want a quiet fun lady friend who is a homebody like me.plain looks and any size are fine with me.please like some romantic fun.handicapped ladies welcome also into my life. homebody types are what i want as i don't need to run around to be be happy.